Kristin Cabot, an HR executive, recently opened up about the harassment she faced after a viral video captured her hugging her boss, Andy Byron, during a Coldplay concert in July. The moment quickly gained attention on social media, with Coldplay's lead singer, Chris Martin, joking about the pair's awkwardness.
Cabot, 53, spoke to the Times about the aftermath, revealing that she has struggled to find work since resigning from Astronomer following Byron's leave and subsequent investigation. I've been told I am 'unemployable',' she said, sharing the toll the incident has taken on her mental health and family life.
In this candid discussion, Cabot explained that while the public quickly moved on from the viral moment, her ordeal intensified. She became the target of bullying and criticism online, with many labeling her unfairly. I became a meme, I was the most maligned HR manager in HR history, Cabot lamented.
As she navigated the fallout, her children's fear of public scrutiny added to her stress, stating that they were embarrassed to be seen with her due to the harassment she received. Cabot noted that women were often her harshest critics throughout the ordeal, leading her to wonder why she bore the brunt of the backlash.
Despite the ongoing challenges, including threats to her safety and an intense media presence outside her home, Cabot is beginning to find support and healing. She reported that she has sought therapy for her children and has started re-engaging in social activities.
In a poignant reflection, Cabot emphasized her struggle with accountability, stating, I made a bad decision...and I gave up my career for that. Amid the chaos, she expressed a sense of loss, not just personally, but for her family's well-being.
Andy Byron has remained largely silent following the incident, with no public statements made. Astronomer's board accepted his resignation shortly after the controversy emerged, reaffirming their commitment to corporate accountability.
